While reading Eleana J Kim’s Adopted Territory, I thought about a crazy
conversation I had with my sister a couple of years ago. My sister is known for
her big heart and crazy antics, so when she told me that she had planned to
adopt a Chinese baby girl in about ten years, I wasn’t surprised. As usual I
questioned why she would do that when there are healthy Black children in the
foster care system that could also benefit from her love. Part of me thought
that she was just trying to be trendy because that’s what Angelina Jolie and a
number of other high profile celebrities were doing, but when she explained
that it was because little girls aren’t desired in China, it made sense. I
still wasn’t sold though. So then she proceeded to tell me that she was going
to raise her as a Black woman, and that everything would work out fine because
she was going to give this little girl all of the love that she would not have
gotten in China. Although that always sounded problematic to me, I did not have
the tools to articulate it until I read about transnational adoption from the
perspective of the adoptee. Obviously my sister’s intentions were in the right
place, but like other Americans involved in transnational adoptions, she did
not think about the ways in which it would affect the adoptee. The development
of identity and personhood is complicated with transnational adoption, and how
that experience really shapes the perspectives adoptees have of themselves and
others around them was probably never considered. When Kim discusses
disidentification for Korean adoptees, she states “The misrecognition of
adoptees whose socialization as white is at odds with their racialization as
Asian is, following Judith Butler, an “uneasy sense of standing under a sign to
which one does and does not belong”(93). If my sister were to raise a Chinese
girl as a Black woman, there would at some point be major identity issues. She
probably would not be accepted into either community, and it would be very hard
for her to form a community with others who are also processing and negotiating
their positionality in the same manner. The fact that my sister would also be
participating in global capitalism in such an exploitive manner would also probably
deter her from transnational adoption as well. As we have learned in this class
there is no way to escape Global capitalism because it is so endemic in our
society; however if she realized the way in which these children were being
commodified, she would probably have a change of heart.
Until the readings for this week I
did not understand how identity and labels could really validate or invalidate
someone’s position in certain communities. Part of that is because I never
really had to think about it. My passport allows me to enter and exit into most
places very easily, but I can’t help but wonder how I would be perceived in
this particular moment if I had a passport from Guinea instead. In the wake of
the Ebola outbreak and the ignorance surrounding that, I would probably be
stigmatized and my mobility would be drastically limited. When Mohanty speaks
about the racism that she faced as a South East Asian in America, and how the
labels “international student” and “student of color” brought about different
experiences for her, it really made me question why I have never interrogated
some of these things before. The readings this week made me re-read Massey’s “Global
Time and Space”, and use that framework to understand Kim’s position a little
more. The space that transnational adoptees have to occupy is essentially
dependant on the way their white American parents do, despite the fact that
they will never be able to experience it the same way due to them being Korean
and the stigma of being considered “waifs” or “orphans”. I really enjoyed the
readings this week and look forward to discussing them in class on Wed.
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